
Drug and Alcohol Treatment
I once
saw a biography of former first lady Betty Ford, who, after hiding
her depression and loneliness with alcohol and prescription drugs
(and hiding her addiction), found that when push came to shove
getting recovery and opening her own drug and alcohol
treatment center worked wonders on the self-esteem, the
self-worth, and the self-survival process. Learning about drinking wine is especially
beneficial in understanding what drinking responsibly is and how
much more you can actually enjoy the wine or even beer and spirits
more once you know what to look for and how to savour it more.
Once Mrs. Ford outed herself, she gave license to other
celebrities to acknowledge, get help for, and heal from their own
private addictions. And at the same time that Lady Ford was
establishing a drug and alcohol treatment center for the
well-to-do, those of us who could not afford such expensive
recoveries were using the longstanding clinics, therapies, and
twelve-step programs that worked for millions. Most of this abuse
is through a complete lack of knowledge
about what we drink and why.
In other words, when seeking drug and alcohol treatment, we have
literally hundreds of options (as another show airing that same
week revealed, for example, with its intervention efforts to get
bulimics to clinics, speed freaks to intervention centers, and
alcoholics to recovery facilities across the nation).
We are blessed with alternatives; alternatives in the sense that
for some, drug and alcohol treatment centers with tough love,
confrontation-style approaches are the only things that will kick
our butts into change, while for others the kid-glove treatment of
therapists is necessary to our growth, and for still others the
rough and ready rigors of a 12-step program such as Narcotics
Anonymous (NA) or Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is the only way to
heal.
There’s no need to begrudge the upper class, the wealthy, the
elite for having a “different” or “better” program than we mere
mortals have. The fact is that one type of drug and alcohol
treatment program that costs thousands and another drug and alcohol
recovery system that is cheap or free has nothing to do with
quality of recovery. What works for the individual is what is
important, and how one works his or her program is imperative.
That is, in one recovery system the premise is that an addict or
alcoholic (or both) should go to the same lengths to get recovery
as he or she went to get loaded. Following this formula of
sorts, then, Robert Downey Junior will spend a few grand to heal
from the extravagant binges he has fallen prey to, John Doe, the
truck driver who succumbed to lifting TV sets and stereos to get a
fix will now volunteer his time at a music school to get himself
“fixed”. And who will be back at the program first?...... probably
not John Doe. If a person has been to rehab then a wine gift basket would probably not be
appreciated so a food gift basket would!
In the end it all works out to reveal we are all similar; we all
have a disease that needs to be squashed, and we all have to work
at using it for it to work. Or to echo one sentiment
(developed by way of Mr. Bill and Dr. Bob (founders of AA), “There
are no big shots or little shots. One shot, and we’re all
shot.”
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